How does the counselor knows that his/her responses effectively address the client’s message

Write a 750-1,000-word paper outlining the importance of empathy, probing, and summarizing in the counseling process. Include the following in your paper:

The role of empathy in the counseling relationship
Techniques for establishing empathy with a client. Provide at least one example to illustrate these techniques.
The role of probing and summarizing in the counseling relationship
How the counselor knows that his/her responses effectively address the client’s message. Provide at least one example to illustrate your response.
Verbal and nonverbal cues indicating that the counselor is not effectively connecting with the client

Include at least three scholarly references in your paper.